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Open Question: How to stop my obsession with a married man?
He is a police officer, we started flirting to each other and he would complain to me about his wife, he was telling me he loved me and we had sex at my place. Despite saying he didn’t love her, he would care too much for her, he would leave early all the time, he would only see me during his work hours and if he was with me and she would call him, he would leave immediately and run to her, he never spent a dime with me, he would forfeit his entire payroll to his cheated wife. One day an older woman called me and in a surprisingly kind tone she told me that I should leave him alone because he was married (I guess she was his mother). After this he told me that we must stop seeing each other, one of his police buddies told me that I was a fool, and that his wife caught him and left their home and he had been going every day to cry and beg her to come back with him. Then he was not going to my place or calling me anymore. After that one day I called him and told him I was sad, he was cold to me and later on he called me back and asked me that I please do not call him anymore because his wife was with him and got upset because I called, I pretended and apologized for causing trouble. Another day I tried to call him and he had changed his number and didn’t give me the new number. Later on the Police assigned him to another district and I didn’t knew anything about him for a few months until he sent me a FB message saying he was missing me and he wanted us to revive "good old times". I tried to play hard to get and didn’t answer his message so he started to value me this time, a few days later I logged into FB and I had a new message sent from his account (but I guess written by his wife) saying “Please respond to my poor id.iot husband, begging for love is pathetic and even more when the one being begged is such a who.re like you”, obviously I didn’t respond and later on I got another message where she was saying that she was fine with me picking her garbage, that she had already dumped him for me to pick up her trash, that there was people in this world that was not worth getting to know and that she felt sorry for the type of sk.ank that her husband had been pork.ing, that she imagined I was pretty before she saw me, but when she saw my pictures on FB she though that I was ugly and cheap, that any man would only use me for a quick tit.ty f.u.c and would then dump my a.ss because I was a skee.zer. For this reason I came to know that they were separated once again so I thought he would come to me, but instead of that he continued to beg her for return to him, he would send him songs to her FB and ask her to forgive his mistake, now they are back and they are going to have a baby, I feel so bad because I’m still sending messages to her saying “How does it feel that your husband slept with me” and she replies “I don’t feel anything public b1.tch, is there any guy in town who has not sha.gged you? If you want him I already told you that you can keep him, I’m not fighting for a man and particularly for one like him… Oh sorry… he doesn’t want to be with you… So you better tell me, how does it feel the man you love is married to another woman and he wouldn’t even buy condoms to be with you and you even had to pay for that?” It upsets me loving him so much and he is stubborn being with her that despite she’s not even fighting for him… what should I do? How to get him back?